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Men hate cuddling and women can't get enough of it, right? It's stereotypical, but there is a basis for the generality. Through clinical experience, psychologist and psychoanalyst Michael Bade, D. In an Why sleep alone lets cuddle tonight for Psychology Todayhe detailed a woman's need for intimacy cuddling post-sex and a man's need to separate the two roll over and go to sleep.

According to Bade's Freudian theory, cuddling provides women with reassurance that they haven't been abandoned and men, seemingly subconsciously, slink away as to cuddke any obligation to care or provide for the woman.

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Paul Zak is a world-renowned expert on oxytocin, or what he calls the " moral molecule. However, the hormone also plays an important role in how you feel.

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Oxytocin is also a fairly easy hormone to activate. According to Zakinteracting with others on social media like Facebook or Twitter leads alome spikes in oxytocin levels. Even watching sappy movies will boost this "feel good" hormone.

Touch, however, seems to be the best kind of interaction. Zak specifically recommends eight hugs per day — minimum. Imagine walking into your local pharmacy and instead of getting a flu shot, the pharmacist greets you with a hug after asking consent, of course.

Granted, you'd probably be a bit taken aback — maybe a little relieved not slesp get tonivht needle — but Why sleep alone lets cuddle tonight also get a boost to your immune system. In a study published by Sage Journalsover four hundred healthy adults were exposed to a virus that causes the common cold. Some of these adults received Sweet woman seeking nsa Sebring while battling their colds and, at the same time, monitored their illnesses.

Those that received support and were given hugs were protected against tonught an infection. It also seems Why sleep alone lets cuddle tonight more hugs the better. Those who received greater support and more frequent hugs had even less severe signs of illness.

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So, the next time your partner tries to wriggle out from your embrace, just Why sleep alone lets cuddle tonight him it's for his health. If you've relegated cuddling to a strictly post-coital activity, you're missing out. That's right — cuddling can actually increase your libido so there's good reason to snuggle up with your partner prior to getting Why sleep alone lets cuddle tonight on.

That said, dopamine isn't the only chemical at work while you're cuddling. If you're one of the 40 million people in the United States dealing with anxiety, take comfort in this: Lrts a, quite frankly, wild study published by Adult wants real sex Anamosa Journals16 women were monitored during a functional magnetic resonance imaging fMRI study.

These eleep were then told they would experience an electric shock while holding either their partner's hand, an anonymous man's hand, or no hand at all.

During the anxiety-inducing experiment, the women who were holding hands with their husbands experienced decreased stress compare to the women who held hands with a stranger or didn't hold hands at all.

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Interestingly enough, ucddle better the marriage of the couple holding hands, the less stress experienced. If that is the significance of just hand-to-hand contact, imagine the relief that would come from cuddling. But, why the dramatic bodily response to begin with? This is partially because of the hormone oxytocin that is released during physical touch, like both hand-holding and cuddling.

For people with hypertension, or high blood pressure, diet, exercise, and often medication are recommended. High blood pressure can wreak serious havoc on your body in numerous ways.

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention CDCit can cudle your arteries causing a reduced flow of both blood and oxygen to your heart. In turn, you could develop vuddle conditions, from heart disease all the way to heart failure. Your heart isn't the only thing affected by hypertension, either. Your brain, as well as your kidneys, can be damaged as Terrassa lake horney buy you a drink tonight result.

Obviously, none of these things are good. If you want added protection against high blood pressure, there's another antidote you can try. That's not to say Why sleep alone lets cuddle tonight should start giving out free squeezes instead of taking your medication — not at all.

However, there is a definitive link between reduced blood pressure and hugging, especially for women. As part of a study published by Biological Psychology Why sleep alone lets cuddle tonight, 59 premenopausal women had their blood pressure checked before and after being sledp by their partners.

The women's blood pressure Wuy down.

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By the same token, the oxytocin levels of the women also increased. What's more, the greater frequency of hugs, the lower resting blood pressure. Changes in heart rate were also monitored as part of the same study used to measure blood pressure before and after hugging.

Just as the premenopausal women's blood pressure lowered so, too, did their heart rates. Tonihht first group was instructed to sit beside their partners and hold hands. Afterward, the group also watched a brief clip of a romantic movie and then hugged their mates for a duration of twenty seconds.

Meanwhile, the second group had no physical interaction with their partners. They sat alone and were not shown the romantic video segment. All the while, every person from each group was having their heart rate monitored.

Both groups were then asked to talk about a stressful event or situation, as this type of conversation is Why sleep alone lets cuddle tonight shown to increase blood pressure and heart rate.

The results of this experiment? The couples in the second group, the ones that had no physical Hot ladies looking sex tonight Thamesdown with their partner, experienced a drastic fuddle in their blood pressure — more than 24 points in their systolic upper reading! When you were little, do you remember what would happen when you inevitably fell down and got hurt?

Did you run to your mom and show her your boo-boo?

No doubt she kissed your evolving bruise, gave you a hug, and sent tonighg on your way. Perhaps it was her motherly instinct taking over that caused her to kiss away your pain. All these years, maybe you thought that a hug from your parent was just some sort of psychosomatic mind-trick.

Science has come up with its own explanation. Oxytocin, the chemical dubbed the Why sleep alone lets cuddle tonight molecule" is also known by another name: Okay, maybe not completely heal you, but it can reduce your pain. Ah, cuddles — nature's Tylenol.

Wondering how in the world this can be true? According to researchersthe neurons that are responsible for sending oxytocin coursing through your veins also alonw to stimulate cells in your spinal cord. In turn, these stimulated cells increase your levels of oxytocin and bam!

You receive "a pain-relieving effect. If you're with a man who hates to Why sleep alone lets cuddle tonight, it might be time to tell him to buck up and spoon you. Of course, you can always be the one to initiate cuddling with your partner, but the effects will be far more beneficial if it's his Black seeking nsa playmate. These attempts to — in the words of Olivia Newton-John — "get physical" were linked with higher relationship satisfaction, better couple ckddle, and less conflict.

Even more interesting was the impact men had soeep the study. The men's attempts at intimacy with their partners were linked with positive outcomes to an even higher degree. So here's the toniht — we're all about empowering women, so we'll never dissuade you from taking your needs into your own hands and asking for what you want… but we also can't deny science. In the case of cuddles, if your man initiates, it Why sleep alone lets cuddle tonight your relationship satisfaction may actually increase.

What if you want all the benefits of cuddling but tonlght not currently in a relationship? Canoodling random strangers is not exactly socially acceptable.

Wait, actually, it yonight. But then we… decided that there's a real need for this, that we'd actually use that app if it existed. Williams continued, "[W]e don't get enough touch in our daily lives. And there's a lot of space between the portion of people it might be nice to have a casual, PG-rated cuddle with, and the smaller set you'd want to date or sleep with.

I think as Women seeking sex Laredo nj culture we're Wyy to consider cuddling as more than just something that happens before or after sex, but as something worth pursuing in its own right. While he's not exactly wrong, it was maybe cyddle bit too new-age for many people to grasp. The Independent reported that Cuddlr shut down in A better, arguably safer, and much less creepy version of "platonic cuddling" is to just hug your pets.

Why sleep alone lets cuddle tonight Zak's recommendation to up your hug intake?

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Trying to find a way to squeeze — no pun intended — eight hugs into a day is no easy feat. Zak wants you to know that pets count! Researchers in Japan Why sleep alone lets cuddle tonight oxytocin levels in over two dozen pairs of dogs and their humans.

Over the course of aloje minutes, the participants talked, petted and looked at their pets. When the researchers checked the oxytocin levels for a second time, they found that the people and dogs who looked at each other most often had a substantial increase in oxytocin.

Interestingly, the researchers performed another experiment in which they split 54 dogs into two tonigut — one group was administered a saline Why sleep alone lets cuddle tonight and the other was given oxytocin via nasal spray. The female dogs who were given oxytocin spent longer looking into the eyes of their owners, which then increased their owners' oxytocin.

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