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That was 10 years ago. Wolf now lives with them in a four-bedroom house in Sonoma County, northern California, along with Oberon's lover, Natalie.

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Wolf's wife, Wynter former lover of Morning Glory and, briefly, Oberon is a frequent visitor. The Ravenhearts are devotees of "polyamory", the practice of having a romantic relationship with more than one person coined by Morning Glory, the term has I want to fuck maile Oberon entered the OED. Disillusioned with monogamy because of widespread cheating fucj divorce, growing numbers of people in America feel that three is not a crowd - and nor is four or five.

The gay and bisexual communities have been practising alternatives to monogamy for years. Now straight people are catching up.

Polyamory is one solution to the I want to fuck maile Oberon of monogamy. But having multiple lovers does not mean they are casual about relationships. It is just that, as Grant, a year-old computer systems manager from Leicester, puts it, "Polys don't believe that commitment has to equal exclusivity.

Far from tearing apart relationships, polyamory can actually hold them together.

I want to fuck maile Oberon Polyamory is often confused with swinging, but while swinging is about recreational sex, polyamory is about relationships. Polys are more likely to be involved in group therapy than group sex, more often found at supper parties than at play parties. They like to get together and talk about issues such as whether or not to have joint bank accounts with their lovers.

Polyamorists favour a wide variety of relationship configurations unlike Mormon polygamists. Amatuer pussy Newport news sc, like the Ravenhearts, live together in a group marriage if wang have sex with others outside the marriage, they have a "condom commitment".

Others form a "V," in which one person has two lovers but those wanh are not I want to fuck maile Oberon with each other. For example, Harry, a year-old technical consultant from Essex, lives with his wife, her other "husband", and their three children. Some coalesce into a triad, in which each one is romantically involved with the other two these often comprise two bisexual women and a straight man.

Perhaps the most common model is the wang, or open marriage, in which two people live together but have other long-term lovers outside the home. Naomi is a year-old lesbian who works in IT I want to fuck maile Oberon support. She lives in San Francisco with her partner of three years. She also has a year relationship with a bisexual woman who lives with a man, and a two-year relationship with another lesbian woman. Occasionally Naomi and her various lovers go out to dinner or a film together.

Although some 19th-century religious groups practised polyamory, it did not I want to fuck maile Oberon get going until the publication in of Robert Heinlein's Stranger in a Strange Land, a sci-fi novel in which sexual possessiveness lies at the root of war and murder.

This book inspired a number wanh ill-fated sexual communes, such as San Francisco's Kerista community, in which every member had sex with each person of the opposite sex on a rotating schedule. The poly movement has been driven not only by science fiction, but also by feminism. Polyamory spread slowly in the 80s, perhaps because of Aids, then blossomed with the help of the internet. Today America has more than poly email lists and support groups.

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Their emblem, which marks maiel table when they meet in restaurants, is the parrot because of their nickname Polly. There is a I want to fuck maile Oberon magazine, handbooks, endless conferences, retreats and workshops.

By contrast, the UK has only one poly mail list, UK-poly currently with about subscribersand one online news group.

Two magazines faltered after just one issue each. It is impossible to tell whether Britain has a paucity of polys, or whether they just prefer to keep a low profile. According to Anapol, Britain is "about fo years behind America in terms of its acceptance".

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But Grant, who runs the UK-poly list, has a different explanation. He believes the numbers could be much higher, arguing Obedon British people are if anything more tolerant than in America which is perhaps why British polys are less in need of support groups.

mailf People might disapprove, but they won't try to mess up Obeton life. In America, they might call social services," says Grant. In fact, in the US in one woman had her three-year-old taken away after she revealed on MTV that she was living with her husband and her lover she later got the girl back. For most people, the biggest stumbling block to polyamory is jealousy. But polys try to see jealousy less as a green-eyed monster than as I want to fuck maile Oberon opportunity for character-building.

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Kathy Labriola, a counsellor in Berkeley, California, who organises poly support groups, advises patients to do a visualisation exercise to help them pinpoint exactly what triggers their jealousy, mentally watching the unfolding of their partner's new romance from first date to having sex.

Usually people find they have only one or two trigger points.

For some people, the trigger is the thought of their partner sharing their bed with a new lover and the solution is to ask them to have sex at the lover's house or in a hotel. For others, such as Grant, the trigger is the thought of being fuuck at home while their partner is out having fun.

The answer is to make sure they schedule their lovers on I want to fuck maile Oberon same nights. Allowing I want to fuck maile Oberon lover to sleep with someone else might seem a super-human feat, but most polys ffuck they have overcome or can manage jealousy.

In some ways, if you are poly you have less reason to be jealous than a monogamous person, since if your partner takes a lover it need not threaten your Oberoon. In fact, poly relationships are more likely to be eroded by minutiae than by melodrama: Quoting a favourite poly axiom, Labriola says: For a while, the Ravenhearts solved the time problem by putting a sleeping schedule on the refrigerator, in Jersey City girl nude each person spent two consecutive Obern with each of their lovers and one night alone even polys need personal time.

The Ravenhearts have worked out many of the problems that plague co-habiting polys, such as how to share money and space. Each person has their own private account, and contributes to a family account for groceries, rent and utility bills.

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As for their living arrangements, it helps that they have a large house: Living together can be tough for anybody, but particularly for polys. When Jonathan Jonas, his wife Deanna and their son moved in with Martha and Don Moore, and their two sons, each family had their own way of I want to fuck maile Oberon things and it was difficult to integrate the two. If polyamory is so hard, why bother? For many, it is a hankering for community.

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Oberon argues that we have become increasingly alienated, partly because of the 20th century's replacement of the extended family with the nuclear family. As a result, many of us are striving "to create complex and deep relationships through extended networks t multiple lovers and extended families". Many polys believe that children also benefit from living in stable, extended poly families more I want to fuck maile Oberon to share the work.

Oberon's utopia is attractive, but if just three find it hard to live together, then his vision may be something of a wannt night's dream.

A more compelling argument for polyamory is human nature. Since so many people are already non-monogamous, why not develop a non-monogamy that is honest, responsible and socially acceptable?

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But some of us are not, and more and more are refusing to be shoehorned into monogamy. You yourself may already live next door to Mr and Mr and Mrs Jones.

Oberon Ravenheart has been married to Morning Glory for more than 30 years. They adore each other. But when Morning Glory brought home her lover, Wolf, Oberon wasn't angry.